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Humble on and humble up

"Humilde" is the Spanish word for humble.  Growing up in Panama in the 80's, being 'humilde' was the politically-correct way of saying you were poor.  So you can understand my confusion growing up when one was asked to be humble and to be driven and successful.  Fast forward me arriving in America to face a nation of exuberant confidence.  It literally took me four years living in the USA before I encounter the word "humble" in a book (OK I was studying engineering, but still).

After living here for twenty years, I must say confidence is one of the added traits of being an American, of which I am very proud, and Confidence is key to getting ahead in life. It helps you do better at work, in relationships, and in interviews. Overconfidence, however, can make you seem like a genuine, how can I say this humbly?  asshole . We all know that one person that thinks they are the strongest, smartest, and just all around best at everything. Truthfully, we all dislike that person to some degree.

So, while confidence is essential, it's important to stay humble as well (the two aren't as contradictory as I used to think). Remember the tale of the Emperor's New Clothes: It's okay to be wrong about something and, more importantly, it's okay to admit that to others. This shows that you not only value your opinion and decisions, but that you also value the opinions and decisions of those around you.

People respond well to humility because it shows that you place yourself at the same level as them, and not above them. Plus, it has other benefits too. Psyblog has an eye-opening list of these benefits that can occur in your personal and professional life. Here are just a few:

Soothe the Soul: Humble people are better able to cope with anxiety about their mortality. Instead of erecting self-defenses against death, humble people tend to find it provides a useful perspective on life and how it should be lived. When it's not all about you, it makes death easier to contemplate.Higher Self-Control: Having high self-control is one key to a successful life. Oddly, perhaps, studies have found that an obsession with the self can paradoxically lead to lower self-control. The humble, though, because they place less importance on the self, exhibit higher self-control in many situations. Perhaps this is partly due to the fact that humble people tend to know their limits.More Helpful: Humble people are, on average, more helpful than people who are conceited or egotistical. In a study by LaBouff et al. (2011), participants who were more humble, were more likely to offer help, and offered more of their time, to those in need. Unsurprisingly, humble people have also been found to be more generous.

The full post lists even more benefits, and is worth a look.

That last one, "More Helpful," can be especially useful to you. To experience the life we want, we often need help—and what better way to get that help than from those we've helped already?  So even if you're a little overconfident on the inside, practicing humility can actually get you ahead.


Posted on June 13, 2014 and filed under inspiration, Spirituality, wellness.

Natural solution is overlooked while MRSA cases double in five years

Sometimes smart and scientifically proved solutions aren't made available to the public just because there isn't a capital gain.  I find that unfair. Recently I learned about  a MRSA infection case in a local hospital, which was poorly handled and decided to do so some research on the subject. And you know how I love sharing. 

According to materials released July 26, 2012 by the University of Chicago Press Journals the number of methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA) infections doubled in academic medical centers from 2003 to 2008.  According to Scott Johnson with the Holistic Health Examiner,  "even though these infections dramatically rise worldwide, conventional medicine largely ignores an effective natural solution — essential oils.  And one Utah company — Young Living Essential Oils — is leading the way in pioneering research to bring more attention to these potent remedies."

MRSA is a term used to describe staph infections that have adapted and become resistant to the first line antibiotics that typically cure staph infections. Once inside the body, a staph infection can quickly spread to bones, joints and organs, which can be life threatening.

These so-called “superbugs” have been called a significant and multifaceted health threat that places “a significant human and economic burden on society” by the U.S. Centers for Disease Control.  According to Dr. Margaret Chan, director general of the World Health Organization, "things as common as strep throat or a child's scratched knee could once again kill," as more bacteria evolve to become resistant.

The growing body of evidence suggests that unmatched tools in the fight against MRSA can be found in essential oils. These potent botanical extracts exhibit significant antiviral and antibacterial effects that have been clinically proven in hundreds of scientific studies. In their pure form, essential oils readily kill bacteria — including MRSA — and viruses. More importantly, research suggests they kill MRSA without promoting bacterial resistance and they are free of the side-effects common to antibiotics.

The following is a list of some of the most well-researched essential oils for their ability to destroy MRSA and other pathogens.

My go-to blend of essential oils, which combines a good amount of the essential oils mentioned above is Thieves, sold exclusively by Young Living.  If you are interested in learning more about this natural way of staying healthy please contact me or visit my aromatherapy page to learn how to order therapeutic grade essential oils.


A gentle, effective approach to cleansing

Many health experts recommend cleansing as a normal, preventive practice, yet a majority of people only cleanse after they are sick or diseased.  The key to a successful cleanse is to find a program that will help you eases the process with a simple, energizing program that helps you say goodbye to the obstacles and excuses that prevent you from cleansing.  I have tried various gentle cleanses and I found Young Living 5-Day Nutritive Cleanse to be a great one.  I do about three of these a year (Young Living recommends four).  All you need arrives in a box,  you replace your meals with nutritional supplements, ingest Essential Oil capsules and you can snack through the day.  That easy.

Why to cleanse at all?

Modern diets have degenerated into high calories, low-to-no nutrients, very little fiber, and dangerously high levels of sweeteners.  According to experts, these quickly digested “foods” flood the bloodstream, causing insulin levels to soar. High levels of insulin are associated with increased inflammation. Recent research indicates that inflammation is at the root of all chronic diseases. Excess blood sugar and insulin surges eventually lead to chronic problems like diabetes and cardiovascular damage. In addition, high blood sugar and insulin often play a pivotal role in the following problems: hypertension and kidney damage, weak and brittle vessels and veins, and a number of serious chronic illnesses such as diabetes, cancer, and Alzheimer’s disease. One noticeable symptom of excessive insulin and high blood sugar is abdominal obesity.

About two-thirds of American adults are overweight. One third are clinically obese. This condition also increases your risk for heart disease, cholesterol imbalance, cancer, female infertility, and gallstones. Excess insulin and high blood sugar creates a vicious cycle. You crave simple carbohydrates because they enter the blood quickly. Then, a surplus of insulin is produced which causes more hunger.  In response to hunger, you eat more. Overeating causes more body fat to accumulate and it activates more insulin. This merry-go-round of insulin spikes leaves you tired, hungry, and unfocused.    So a cleanse is a basic way to reboot your system so you are energized, and experiencing life better!

Posted on April 14, 2014 and filed under aromatherapy, essential oils, wellness.

How to Quit Coffee Painlessly!

Chances are that if you are doing a detoxifying cleanse, trying to resolve a sleeping problem or  visiting an Ashram you will need to quit coffee.   At least during your cleanse and/or your visit.  I am not writing about the pros & cons of coffee (I love coffee too much & I have experienced both the pros and cons for years).  This is just a practical way of giving up coffee as painless as possible.  Whether you want to do it momentarily or permanently is up to you.

If you are a coffee drinker and have tried to quit it before you know that it can be a very uncomfortable, if not painful, process.  So the main step to do this successfully is to do it in stages and slowly.  Start by weaning yourself off main offenders such as colas (even Diet Coke! or any soda for that matter), energy drinks, and chocolate.  Even some over the counter medications such as Anacin and Excedrin contain caffeine.  

That alone may take a week or so.  Once you are only consuming coffee it takes about a week or two depending on how many cups of coffee you consume on a daily bases.   Here’s a painless strategy to unhook from the caffeine drip:

Day 1: Today, have your usual amount of coffee. Yes, that is part of the process.

Day 2 – Day 3: Blend your regular coffee with 50% decaf (preferably certified organic). Drink that for the next three days.  Have at hand your favorite headache cure whether it's aspirin or peppermint essential oil

Day 4- Day 6: Have 25% regular coffee, 75% decaf.  By day 5 or 6, try to consume only one cup a day of this blend.

Day 7: Start drinking pure decaf. Yay, you are on decaf now.  However that is not caffeine free.

Day 9 - Day 12 : Continue drinking decaf.  Some people may need to this for a whole week depending on their addiction.

Day 13 - Day 14:  Most of the coffee drinking habit is, well, habit.  Begin to use a coffee substitute.  I tried INCA successfully.  There are many other in the market.  Find them at your local health food store.  Just remember these are not coffee and taste nothing like coffee.  You are trying to avoid caffein so think of it as a ritual placebo not coffee, you will be disappointed if you think it's replacing coffee.   Now you are caffeine free!

Kicking the caffeine habit can be incredibly difficult, but well worth your while. Your sleep will be longer and of higher quality,  quitting before you start a detox cleanse would make the cleanse a lot easier & quitting before going to an ashram will make waking up at 5 am a lot easier without coffee.   

Please let me know if you have any questions.  I am here to help.

Posted on April 3, 2014 and filed under essential oils, inspiration, wellness.

Want Happy Feets? Aromatheray blend to energize your step!

As we move into warmer days, awaken your senses with clean, refreshing scents.  Citrus aromas are naturally cleansing and energizing- think lemon, grapefruit, orange.  Peppermint, lime, ginger, eucalyptus and rosemary scents, to name a few, are all used to uplift the spirit and recharge the mind and body.  While reading Barbara Close's The Spa Deck, I ran into this great foot soother recipe which is just what my winter-tired feet are barking for.

Before I give you the recipe, make sure to look for pure therapeutic grade essential oils.  Don't use synthetic fragrances, only pure essential oils retain the healing properties of the plants from which they are derived.  I have a link to my favorite essential oil brand in my webpage

Rosemary Citron Sea Salt Foot Smoother

Want happy feet?  Try this after wearing uncomfortable shoes or standing for long periods.  It works its magic in part by helping to break up lactic acid deposits that causes feet to ache.

Mix all ingredients together in a bowl; set aside.  Soak feet in warm water for 10 minutes to soften the skin.  Rub mixture onto feet, concentrating on the rough patches.  Wrap feet in plastic and swaddle in a towel.  Leave on for 15 minutes.  Rinse with warm water.